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I am so thrilled to share this post by Sabrina Bolin with y’all today. If you’ve ever felt like dreaming + imagining couldn’t possibly help you grow, learn, accomplish, and achieve your goals as a grown up, then read on, because you might be surprised!

because adults have dreams too

Remember how much fun it was as a little kid to color, draw, play, imagine…and dream?

Oh but all of that is past us now – we’re all grown-up, and dreaming is for kids.

Kids who don’t have jobs, bills, worries, yadda, yadda, yadda.

Dreaming couldn’t possibly help us grown-ups in life – it’s a distraction, best left for those who don’t want to make it in this world.

To these sentiments, my response is this:

Bull honky.

In fact, nothing truly great or innovative ever came about from a grown-up ignoring his imagination and ability to envision.

Do you think Steve Jobs ignored his imagination when he dreamt up his iWorld that we happily live and play in?

Or maybe you’re not an iBaby like me – Bill Gates ain’t resting on his laurels when it comes to thinking outside of the proverbial box either.

Your imagination is one of the most important gifts you’ve been given to not only have more fun in this life – but also to be more successful in living out your biggest, boldest dreams.

So now that we’ve got that clear – how are you going to give that imagination of yours room to play?

Of course you could go old skool and literally take out a piece of paper and crayons and go to town.

Or maybe with your grown-up sensibilities you prefer charcoal…or doodling in pen…or writing in pencil…point is, there isn’t a right answer here.

There are many, many, many ways to expand your creativity and tap into your amazingly awesome imagination skills.

What’s even more exciting is that as grown-ups, we have the gift of not only being to imagine, dream, and visualize, but we also have access to the resources to bring these dreams into the real world.

One tool that taps into the power of creative imagination and the subconscious mind is vision boards.

Vision boards are images and words collected and organized for the purpose of sparking your subconscious mind to create the life your soul desires, based on research that shows that your subconscious mind speaks more clearly in the language of images than that of words.

How to – vision board-ing 101 in 2 easy steps:

1.  Gather images that speak to your soul

Many of us get lost (myself included) by picking out pictures of cold hard cash because that’s what we think we want. But truly, money is just another symbol – a tool of communication that expresses what we value.

Don’t get too heady about this – your soul might reach for an image of a rainbow-colored beach blanket, and you might not entirely understand why. Trust your intuition and reach for those pictures and phrases that really light you up.

2. Organize your vision

If your images were ones you could feel and touch, then cut & paste them onto a posterboard or butcher paper. Have fun with this – how often do you honestly get to play with glue stick in your day to day life?

If you prefer images of the digital variety, you can organize them on a Secret (or public) board on Pinterest. I like to take a screenshot of the final collage and set it as a wallpaper on my iPhone giving me an opportunity to check in with my soul’s desire with every incoming call, tweet, or text.

*Special Note: Creating a vision board is not an excuse to sit back and wait. Yes you want to be open and receptive, and there will be times of pure relaxation, but part of the joy in life is taking inspired action toward those goals that excite us. Remember that envisioning is only one piece of the manifesting puzzle.

Once you’ve created your vision board, feel free to check in with it periodically to see what has manifested – or not. This is optional really, as some believe it’s all about the process of allowing yourself to explore these images once to set things in motion.

Whether you use your vision board as a daily blueprint to re-align your subconscious mind or only look at it when you’re in the act of creating it, trust that your vision board is working on a deeper level as your subconscious mind is powerful enough to carry out the work when it’s been set on course by your soul.

Sabrina at MyMiBoSo 1Sabrina Bolin is a compassionate guide whose mission in life is to be a vessel for love, and she currently manifests that mission through MyMiBoSo, her coaching practice focused on bringing intuitive awareness to the mind and body in order to create joy in the soul.

Connect with her at MyMiBoSo.com to get instant access to the MyMiBoSo digital library for FREE (including the soon to be released MyMiBoSo Insight to Intuitively Inspired Action Mini Guide). She can also be found dropping love bombs on Facebook and Twitter.

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Inspirational Interview: Angie Androit

by Ashley on June 17, 2013 · 0 comments

This is one of our Inspirational Interviews in which we talk to people who have imagined big dreams, made them a reality, and are living a life they love. Today we are talking to Angie Androit who owns an online perfume supply shop!

1. Tell us a little about yourself!

Hi! I am the owner of an online perfume supply shop, Vetiver Aromatics. My goal is to make that website more than just a supply store, though. Many of my customers are budding perfumers themselves – and often want to go into business making their own perfume. So my ultimate goal is to make Vetiver a hub for them, offering not just supplies, but also instruction, resources, information….the sky’s the limit!

But I also have a PhD in Sociology and am a college professor. Aaaand I am working on a new website dedicated to helping creative entrepreneurs grow their businesses.

I also loooove cooking, and painting, and photography, and gardening, and reading, and farmers markets, and craft fairs.
Whew! I live a full life.

2. What does living a “super awesome life” look like for you?

To me a super awesome life is characterized by freedom, fun, and fruitfulness. It’s one where I am free to pursue my passions while having the resources available to help others and make the world a better place. A life that is both meaningful and driven.

And being able to work in my pajamas. That.

3. What inspired you to start a business that sells perfume making kits and supplies?

Honestly? I just wanted to be an alchemist and own an apothecary. Perfume making kits and supplies seemed the most viably close to that dream I could get :) . Seriously, though – if you’ve never made perfume, it really does feel like you’re playing the role of mad scientist, mixing your liquids, tracking your formulas. I even use test tubes sometimes, just for the effect.

4. What has been your biggest challenge since starting your own business?

When I first started my business, I had no business training. That was a HUGE challenge to overcome. So I read every business book I could get my hands on, started following some business rock stars, took workshops, classes…..and eventually realized that everything I needed to know about business, I learned in sociology. Go figure.

More specifically though, there was a time, just over a year into starting Vetiver, that I seriously considered throwing in the towel. It had been a year, every month so far had generated negative profits, and I wasn’t feeling it. I even made an appointment with someone to talk about handing the business over to them. And then I realized that it wasn’t malaise that was feeding this decision, it was FEAR. I was afraid that I wasn’t going to cut it. My business wasn’t good enough. I didn’t have the chops.

So I buckled up, and told myself “Self! You can’t possibly know if you don’t have the chops until you’ve either failed or succeeded. Cutting ties before even failing is just giving up.” And you know what? I’ve turned a profit every month since then.

5. Can you share a bit about the process of making your own perfume (after purchasing one of your kits)?

Alchemy meets mad science. Making perfume means playing with pipettes, graduated cylinders, funnels, vials, tester strips. It’s fun. One thing that makes my store unique is that I sell kits that are suited for beginners and hobbyists. Once you get deeper into perfume, you’ll start working with solids, and powders, and other more complicated materials. But I sell everything in ready-to-mix liquid form.

Perfume making is part art and part science. There’s definitely some specific knowledge that is good to have – fragrance families, notes, blending basics – but in the end, if you like what you’re smelling, that’s all that matters.

6. What advice would you give to someone interested in learning more about perfume?

It depends on what they want to know – more about the industry? About making perfume? If it’s making perfume, I’d say start by learning the basics – do you want to work only in naturals, or do you want to use the full palette? These are really two different worlds in perfumery. The comprise different sets of knowledge, different skills, and different ingredients.

Do some research on who is big in the industry. I know more about indie perfumers, since that’s my own niche. Follow them, see how they got started. Join some of the forums and dive in!

7. What little things in life right now make you you do a happy dance? Big things?

June marks two momentous anniversaries in my life. First, Vetiver Aromatics turns two in June! I’m super excited about that – and soooooo glad I didn’t throw in the towel last year. I’m also working on my own line of perfume, which I’m hoping to launch well before Christmas.

Second, my 10 year wedding anniversary is in June! My how time flies.

Also: summer vacation, the return of our local farmer’s market, and tomato plants in the garden.

8. In the movie of your life, who would you want to play you?

Felicia Day.

9. What is one thing you’d like to change about the world?

If I could magically wave a wand and change something, I’d make everyone more comfortable with who they are, and with who the people around them are. I think those two things are closely related. I don’t think I’m going to do that through perfume, but it is something I’m working on in some side businesses. In the meantime, just giving people something to feel good about is a great start! And that is definitely within the realm of perfume making.

10. What quote best represents you or motivates you in your current place in life?

“The nitrogen in our DNA, the calcium in our teeth, the iron in our blood, the carbon in our apple pies were made in the interiors of collapsing stars. We are made of starstuff.” – Carl Sagan

I like this quote because it reminds me that we are all connected – that underneath it all, we’re just a bunch of atoms and elements. It makes me feel small and big at the same time. I am part of the universe, but the universe also lives inside me. Within each of us are the elements necessary for creating a star.

This motivates me on a personal and spiritual level, of course. But it also does so on a business level – it’s a constant reminder that every single person who places an order on my website is an actual, living breathing human. They are on the other end of the computer, shopping for their hobby, for a gift, whatever. And if I remember to think about the experience from their end – who they are, what they want, what they need, what they fear – then they become more than just customers, and I can serve them better as people than as customers.

11. What inspires you to continue living a life you love each day?

The fact that I love my life! My inspiration is waking up each morning happy to see a new day, and the desire to keep it that way.

Thanks so much for sharing, Angie!


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Do You Feel Trapped By Money?

by Ashley on June 14, 2013 · 1 comment

You have goals. You have dreams. You have visions for quitting your soul-sucking job, traveling through Japan, becoming a chef, and finally writing that book.

But you’re also totally broke.

You feel trapped by student loans, rent, and all the other things life demands from you.

So how do you still go after your super awesome life?

That’s what we’re talking about in this episode of Ashley’s Video Diary.

Watch this video to learn my two tips for NOT succumbing to money and still going after your dreams. 

I’d love for you to leave a comment telling me what your biggest struggle is in terms of money. How do you continue go after your dreams when finances are tight? 

 


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the 2 things

It doesn’t matter if you’re selling crafts on Etsy, training for a half-marathon, dreaming of selling everything you own to travel the world, playing with your band at the local coffee shop, or an aspiring politician.

If you’re not doing these two things, you’re likely to experience more stress, more burn-out, and more dissatisfaction throughout your life.

And who wants that?

Not me.

So, here are the 2 things all super awesome people have in common:

1. Dedication to the Basics

This means getting clear on the fundamental things you need to do each day to live a super awesome life. Your basics will vary depending on whether you’re an athlete or a travel junkie, a yogi or an entrepreneur. But for me, I need to spend time moving my body every day. I need to read every day and study and grow. I need to appreciate the people I love and share my love with others. Start brainstorming about what your basics might be and how you can begin injecting those into your day.

2. Passionate Consistency

If you’re not showing up day in and day out, putting in the effort, and making (even small amounts of) progress toward your biggest goal, it’s nearly impossible to become exceptional.  This might look like showing up in the office 40 hours a week, or it might look like spending your mornings on your yoga mat. It might look like networking, or writing a blog post, or talking to your mentor. It’s about taking one small step each day to move yourself forward.

It’s pretty straight forward, right? But I know it can be super challenging to actually following through with these two simple steps.

That’s why I’ve created Dream Quest.

I mean, how would it feel knowing that you have the vision, the step-by-step action plan, the connections, and the support of 8 other women who understand what it’s like to have a big “fantasy” goal and to finally crush it?

Imagine what you can do with an intimate and super dedicated group of like-minded women who get you and understand your fears and insecurities.

Imagine having a fierce leader who won’t let you fail, asking hard questions, and oozing unconditional encouragement.

Imagine an intense level of inspiring accountability and loving support while you actually make this happen and do what you’ve always wanted to do.

That’s what you get with Dream Quest.

It’s SIX MONTHS of vision mapping, action taking, and goal crushing excitement.

This is what you’ve been waiting for.

And if this sounds like something meant for you, I’d love for you to join us!

Before you go, I’d love for you to leave a comment below telling me what your basics are and how you be more passionately consistent starting now. 

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This is one of our Inspirational Interviews in which we talk to people who have imagined big dreams, made them a reality, and are living a life they love. Today we are talking to Melissa Moriarty who quit her job and is launching a ceramic dinnerware company in Bogotá, Colombia!

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1. Tell us a little about yourself!

Hola! My name is Melissa and I am launching a dinnerware company from Colombia called Azulina Ceramics. About a year ago I came across a small Colombian town called Carmen de Viboral and fell in love with their hand-painted ceramics tradition. I felt so inspired by what I saw that I decided to quit my day job and start a dinnerware company.

I was born and raised in Houston, Texas, but since the age of 17 I have lived all over the place: DC, Spain, Boston, Chicago and Honduras. Now Bogotá, Colombia is my happy home.

2. What does living a “super awesome life” look like for you?

I am at my most happiest when I feel fulfilled. There is a great deal of stress that goes into daily life as an entrepreneur, yet every minute of my day feels well spent. Now I am able to have the freedom to spend my life the way that makes me most happy and awesome, like salsa dancing with my boyfriend, traveling to Texas to visit family or hosting dinner parties.

3. What inspired you to create Azulina?

I have always dreamed of running my own business and doing my own thing, but I never had a clue what I wanted to do. I literally stumbled upon an incredible opportunity and ran with it.

As I was searching for a wedding gift for my best friend I drove to a town outside of Medellín (Colombia) called Carmen de Viboral. The town has been making hand-painted ceramics for over a hundred years, yet you would be hard-pressed to find these pieces for sale even in Bogotá or Medellín. They are fun, colorful and bring a certain element of cheer that I’ve never seen before in dinnerware. I just had to share these ceramics with not only my friends and family, but the rest of the world. And so I started Azulina!

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4. What has been your biggest challenge since deciding to leave the corporate world and start your own business?

Gosh. Time Management. With a capital “T” and “M”. I am so easily distracted and pulled in different directions, so planning my days and sticking to my goals is always a challenge. Before, I had deadlines, managers and teams to keep me on track and focused. Now I have to create those boundaries myself.

5. What advice would you give to other passion-powered women who dream of doing something “bigger” with their lives?

Start before you think you are ready. This should be something that you write on your hand, your journal, your calendar and remind yourself of everyday. There will never be a better time to start doing what you are passionate about or something “bigger”, than now. It is so easy for us to be bogged down by excuses as to why we can’t, or why we need to wait another 3, 6, or 12 months. If you start now you will be forced to work harder and faster than you ever thought you could. As Nike so concisely puts it, Just Do It.

6. What little things in life right now make you do a happy dance? Big things?

Wait, I thought I was the only crazy one who does the happy dance? You do it too?

I am so easily moved to do the happy dance, these are just a few triggers: a blogger reaches out to me to profile and photograph my products, a friend of a friend of a friend signs up for my newsletter, a well-known store in my home town places a big wholesale order…my mom buys a plane ticket to visit me in Colombia!

7. In the movie of your life, who would you want to play you?

I have a really big girl crush on Jennifer Lawrence, but who doesn’t? She is funny, genuine and a hell of a good actor. I think she would be great playing me: An adventurous, no BS Texan who quits her corporate consulting career to move to Colombia on a whim. She also nailed the happy dance in Silver Linings Playbook.

8. What is one thing you’d like to change about the world?

Safety. I live in Colombia and have lived in Honduras, two countries whose populations have bared the brunt of the narcotics trade for decades. I would love for Mexico, Central and South America to get their safety back, for the marijuana, poppy and coca farmers to return to what they used to grow, for drug users to be properly penalized or healed, for legislation to be created to bring this part of the world’s safety back, whatever that legislation may be. Feeling safe is so crucial to our happiness and inner peace.

9. What quote best represents you or motivates you in your current place in life?

A very smart man, my boss from my days in Honduras, used to always repeat the following to me: “Perfect is the enemy of good”. It used to frustrate the heck out of me, because I couldn’t fathom that someone would prefer anything but perfect. Now, it is my daily mantra. It is far more important to just get the job done, to make decisions and to move forward than it is to wait for perfection.

10. What inspires you to continue living a life you love each day?

There is nothing like receiving photos and emails from happy customers. I have always known that Azulina’s pieces were beautiful and fun to use, but to know that my products make other people happy is what keeps me pushing forward and working harder every day.

Thanks so much for sharing, Melissa!


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