For as long as you can remember, you’ve been the straight A student and the superstar employee who follows all the rules. You’ve collected gold stars and blue ribbons. You went to the best school so you could get the best job, and you checked every box along the way.

You became exactly who they wanted you to be.

But now you’re realizing that this life you’ve created isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. This path you’ve followed? It leads toward someone else’s dream.

Something is missing. You want something more: a bigger, bolder slice of life.

Maybe you want to walk away from your 9-5 and open a cupcake bakery. Maybe you want become a yoga instructor in Costa Rica, start an Etsy shop, or write full-time. Or maybe you have no idea what the next step is.

What you do know is that you want to live life on your own terms.

You want to break free of the pressure and emotional clutter that hold you back. You know you’re capable of so much more, if only you had the time, the know-how, or the freedom.

You want to do things because you want to do them, not because you’re expected to, because you’ve always done them, or because you feel like you should. Instead of waiting for someone else’s approval, you want to make big changes–now.

Imagine if you stopped caring about what everyone else wanted and started being completely honest about your deepest desires. Imagine if you could zero in on exactly what you want: the job, relationship, and accomplishments of your dreams. Imagine having the confidence to finally take control and start doing things your own way.

Now you can.

What's for Breakfast

Besides the most delicious thing ever, Cake for Breakfast is a self-guided course that will help you figure out who you are and what you want, so you can become exactly the woman you want to be.


heart  Break down self-constructed barriers + let your true self shine.

heart  Find out what happiness looks like for you + stop letting other people dictate your choices.

heart  Learn strategies to kick-start a life on your own terms + create a plan to implement them today.

The best part? This will change your life, for real. Revelations, mind-shifts, and a-ha moments abound. This could be the beginning of the life you’ve always imagined.


At the end of this sweet course, you’ll walk away:

heart  Feeling fearless + self-assured — and in love with the radiant dreamer you’ve uncovered.

heart  Knowing what you want out of life — and what you’ve been holding on to just to make other people happy.

heart  Excited about your plans for the future — and confident that you’re going to make them happen.


Fork Yellow

Take a taste!


My Story

Like you, I used to thrive on being perfect.

I wanted everyone to like me, and the easiest way to make that happen was by being the perfect daughter, the perfect student, and the perfect employee. Like you, I became who people wanted me to be.

Then, the lightning bolt. After three years in a job that left me physically exhausted and emotionally drained, I learned that living your life for other people isn’t sustainable–and it’s almost impossible to do without burning out.

I knew I had to make a change, but I was terrified.

That’s the thing about other people’s expectations–it’s scary to let go. My whole identity was based on being who other people wanted me to be. It was built around making people happy, despite what I wanted.

Without that, I had no idea who I was. I was ready to begin pouring energy into my own dreams, but I didn’t even know what my dreams were.

After some serious self-reflection, I began to discover the things I truly love.

blue heart Things like deep conversations about hopes and dreams, visiting new places with an open heart, and reading books that leave me feeling inspired and alive.

blue heart Things like leaving the 9-5 world, starting my own business, setting my own hours, and choosing my own clients.

blue heart Things like going for a run early in the morning, drinking iced coffee on a warm summer day, staying in on Friday night, and eating cake for breakfast.

With a little practice, I began creating a life around these moments that made me feel good.

I began listening to my intuition, honoring my feelings, and identifying my dreams.

Two years later, I’ve run three half-marathons, walked away from a toxic job, created (and lived) Your Super Awesome Life, become a life coach, and built a business that allows me to work and live from anywhere in the world.

Cake for Breakfast is your opportunity for transformation.

Everything I’ve learned about living life on your own terms is packed into this course, so that you can hone your own courageous clarity, abandon fears and doubts, and develop a purposeful plan of action.

CFB Discovery

You’ll learn how to:

peach heart  Create a life that makes you feel proud, fulfilled, and excited…every single day

peach heart  Free yourself from negative thoughts + attitudes, leaving more room for the good stuff

peach heart  Remove the guilty pressure you feel to be someone you’re not

peach heart  Recognize the things you do just to make other people happy…and release yourself from those responsibilities

peach heart  Stop feeling like you owe others an explanation for your choices

peach heart  Start giving honest answers to questions about what you want to do with your life

peach heart  Be happier in the here and now as you chase your dreams

At the end of the course, you’ll have:

peach heart  A rock-solid understanding of your core values + priorities

peach heart  A personalized, step-by-step plan to guide you toward a life on your own terms

peach heart  A completed workbook + 52 journal entries full of reminders of your strengths, goals + potential

peach heart  The tools + strategies to hold yourself accountable and stay mindfully on track

peach heart  Unshakable confidence in the path of your dreams

What are you gonna get?

So much goodness, including:

peach heart  A 50 page workbook full of exercises, prompts, and soul-sparking questions.

peach heart  Three 60-minute AUDIO sessions where I’ll guide you through exercises and walk you through the workbook

peach heart  52 weeks of journal prompts to inspire, motivate, and keep you on track–delivered straight to your inbox

CFB About

Three rich layers of personal appreciation and revolutionary action. You’ll start your journey by diving deep inside to determine…

Who You Really Are (Stop hiding behind self-imposed walls + start asking tough questions)

You’ll start off this section by envisioning the moments you feel alive, the truths you’ll always stand behind, and the aspects of yourself you would never, ever change. Your own honesty might shock you as you pinpoint what you need to let go of in order to be happy and discover your own super awesome strengths.

These ideas will guide you as you strip away protective facades and explore what fuels your engine–the fiery passion that will sustain your journey.

Once you’ve zeroed in on exactly who you are and her relationship to who you want to be, the real fun can begin. It’s time to figure out…

What You Actually Want (Not what your parents or friends or boss want for you)

Chances are, relying on others’ expectations to shape your path is holding you back from living a life of integrity.

You’ll inspect each area of your life: self, health, relationships, career, spirituality, and hobbies. With your most thrilling dreams in mind, you’ll learn to bring each of these areas into harmony with your core values.

While we’re at it, you’ll learn to get paid doing what you love, stop letting people-pleasing deplete your energy, and tackle your biggest fears to the ground. You’ll create a vision for the future that excites you to your core.

With new insights and a courageous vision in hand, you’ll create an electrifying plan for…

How To Make It Happen (Without going crazy)

Making it happen means aligning values + priorities + action. This process is the most beautiful kind of challenge, because only you know the happiness that waits when you take the first steps.

You’ll set in motion a powerful system of devoted accountability, creating checkpoints for tracking growth and for celebrating your progress. When the going gets tough, you’ll turn to the toolkit of strategies you’ve learned and the personal support system you’ve created to keep on going.

The moment you take the first step toward living on your own terms, you’ll have a taste of Cake for Breakfast. You’ll know how it feels to make yourself proud, I know you won’t stop there!

blue fork

Sample a bite!


Hi Ashley!

I have been a long time follower of your blog and recently completed part 1 of cake for breakfast. I wanted to send you an email to let you know how much I appreciate what you do! It has been a huge help for me in starting my own freelance graphic design business and etsy shop and a blog of my very own! The weekly emails are AMAZING because they keep me on track and gave me the push I needed to launch my shop last month! (It was terrifying and exciting all at the same time!) Thank you so much! I can't express in words how much of an inspiration you are to me in creating my own little corner of the internet!


Alyssa C.

I've finally been able to give myself permission to go after my dreams!

Hey Ashley!

So I just finished Cake for Breakfast, and I'll admit when I started I was kinda skeptical. I already kinda knew where I wanted my life to go, so 'discovering my super awesome life' wasn't something I really thought I needed. Oh boy, was I wrong!

Your eCourse somehow made what seemed like a complicated pipe dream super achievable. I had heard so much about living your dream life NOW and not waiting until some magic time in the future but I never really 'got it' until now. Your visualization exercise where you look a year into your future brought me to tears. It's like I've finally been able to give myself permission to go after my dreams!

So, THANK YOU, THNAK YOU, THANK YOU! I swear that I couldn't have done it without your help.

All the best!

Amber-Rose T.

Ashley has created a program that I wish I'd had in my 20s.

Cake for Breakfast goes beyond being a mere workbook or course -- it's a deeply felt experience. Ashley has created a program that I wish I'd had in my 20s, but can still benefit from now; this slice of loveliness is for anyone who yearns for something, whether that something remains amorphous and unknown, or is a longing spoken loudly and heart-deep. After experiencing the program, I can say that a yes to Cake for Breakfast is a yes to the possibility of a well-fed life.


Esme W.

Being honest with myself was hard, but it was so worth it.

You don't have to be a 20-something to benefit from Cake for Breakfast. Anyone can benefit from it. Being honest with myself was hard, but it was so worth it. This was a huge learning process about myself, and I couldn't be happier it was with Ashley's program.



Heather B.

My favorite part is the rapid fire questions!

Cake for Breakfast is genius! I mean who doesn't want cake for breakfast, right?  Ashley digs in deep and gets to your inner soul, your desires, your needs, so you just don't figure out how to have cake for breakfast one day, but for the rest of your life.

Listening to the audios, her voice is so soothing and comforting, that even though she is asking these really thought provoking questions, you feel calm and relaxed, letting the answers flow out of you with ease.

I learned so much about myself, answering questions that I may have thought about before, but didn't really take the time to put on paper, which makes all the difference.  And the workbook is easy to use, and cute too!

My favorite part is the rapid fire questions! They spark your imagination, and add fun to such important work.

You must sign up right now for Cake For Breakfast!  It will give you the roadmap you have been looking for to lead you to your destiny!

Sheryn K.

This is something you'll never regret doing!

After years of therapy, nothing got me thinking about myself quite like Cake for Breakfast did.  It's an amazing program that asks the tough questions - not necessarily ones that make you close up in fear, but make you think, because you maybe haven't come close to asking yourself the questions before.  (Don't worry, in part one you'll ask yourself a hundred questions you maybe have asked a hundred times!)  I've learned so much about myself during my time doing this program, and I firmly believe it would be impossible not to learn about yourself from it.  This is something you'll never regret doing, as it gives you tools you'll use every day.

Taylor B.

I was able to ask myself the hard questions.

Cake for Breakfast came into my life at the perfect time. After my position was cut to part time, I'm now in the middle of job searching and trying to make a move to a new state.  I originally thought my current gig was my dream job before actually starting it and slowly realized it wasn't, but I was settling for the time being for many reasons. Now is the most important time to be looking at what I want and how can I get it. Who am I really and who do I want to be.

Cake for Breakfast helped me to think about what really matters to me and to start to visualize my dreams and goals. With the audio sessions and workbook I was able to ask myself the hard questions and start to really figure out where I want to go, what I want out of my next job, and if my current plans are the right plans for me. 

Cake for Breakfast has made me realize that my number one short term goal is to find a job in which I can use my passions. This was the most helpful thing to have because now I know that I really do need to get out of politics and find a career that incorporates my passions.

Megan W.

It helped me get a deeper understanding of my desires & dreams.

Cake for Breakfast? Yes, please! Ashley's newest workbook has really helped me get a deeper understanding of my desires & dreams. With her guided audio it's like she's cheering me on the whole way to discover who I am, what I want, and how to make it happen! If you've got big dreams Cake for Breakfast is just for you!


Stephanie H.



After you hit the “Buy Now” button, you’ll be directed to PayPal. Then you’ll either log in to PayPal or use any credit card with the “Don’t have a PayPal account?” option. Either way will work!

Once you click the “Pay Now” button, you’ll be taken to a confirmation page with one final yellow “Complete Purchase” button. Make sure you hit that “Complete Purchase” button — it takes you to a page to register your email address with my system to receive access to your workbook, audio session, and journal prompts. That page will look like this and you need to fill it out.

Sign up Screenshot

After that, you’ll receive an email from me will that include a link to download your Cake for Breakfast workbook + audio sessions.


Of course! Although Your Super Awesome Life is geared toward 20-something women, Cake for Breakfast is appropriate for anyone who wants to challenge the status quo and begin living on their own terms. So, if you like what you’ve read so far, you’re good to go!


Yes, I love this idea! Just shoot me an email at ashley@yoursuperawesomelife [dot] com and we’ll make it happen. I’ll send you a gift payment link for $97 and ask for the name and email address of your lucky recipient. Easy breezy!


There is no right or wrong way to go through the workbook and audio sessions. You could read it all at once, plan your own weekend retreat to soak up the goodness, complete it section by section over 3 weeks, or dip your toe and dabble in it every few days. Whatever you choose, 52 weeks of journal prompts will give you a regular dose of accountability + inspiration, delivered right to your inbox.


Once you’ve made your payment and signed up your email should arrive shortly. Take a peek in your Junk or “Promotions” Folder as well. All emails will arrive from my address — ashley@yoursuperawesomelife [dot] com. If you still can’t find it, shoot me an email and I’ll help you out.


Yep, I’m offering a 100% money back guarantee. If you’re not satisfied with Cake for Breakfast, I’ll give you your money back. Why? Because I know that if you put in the work, this course will help you begin living on your own terms and that is priceless! But if you don’t think the course was worth your investment, just ask me for a refund and we’ll make happen, no questions asked.


About Ashley


Ashley Wilhite wants to live in a world where following your passion is required, tiaras are the accessory of choice, and cupcakes are abundant.

As a sought-after coach and writer, she’s been featured on the Coaching Blueprint, Tiny Buddha, MindBodyGreen, Yes and Yes, Stratejoy, and Kind Over Matter.

When she’s not helping women create freedom-based businesses, you can find her obsessing over training for her next (4th) half-marathon, devouring each new episode of Pretty Little Liars, and taking as many naps as possible.

Discover how to go after your big dreams and live a life you’re completely in love with at Your Super Awesome Life.




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